Wednesday, April 13, 2022
Losing 100lbs in 3 months: Day 1
Tuesday, May 25, 2021
Goals - Paid to Write
One of my goals has always been to become a paid author. Welcome to one of the first steps I'm taking towards that goal. I'm back to blog a few times a week because I know the best way to improve a skill is to practice. I haven't stopped writing entirely but my writing has gone from fun and informative to strictly for school reports and assignments in APA formatting. I have no love for APA formatting and I miss my creative outlet I get from plain old writing.
I think I'm going to do some kind of writing challenge. There are many writing prompts that can be found on Pinterest. Maybe I will try and do a prompt every day for 30 days and see how it goes from there.
For the moment I just wanted to check in and say I'm alive and I'm back. Let's see where this goes. If you have any ideas for writing prompts please leave them in the comments below.
Sunday, July 26, 2020
Squeaky Clean

Photo by Manki Kim on Unsplash
Greetings from quarantine,
I'm 1000% sure we are all tired of hearing the terms quarantine, coronavirus, social distancing, etc. I know I am so over it but I continue to participate because I know that the health and well being of those around me is more important than my own discomfort.
During Quarantine I have done both amazing and horrible at taking care of myself. I've lost and gained weight. I've felt like a crazy person and a balanced person. I've been all over the emotional map. I've fought with others and myself and kept still. I'm at the point that I am beginning the process of starting a new job. On top of all those fun feelings and emotions from quarantine I am gathering steam for an entire life switch. Talk about an overwhelming cascade of emotions.
I have decided it's time for me to cleanse. Cleanse all of the unwanted emotions, cleanse all of the garbage I've been putting into my body, and cleanse all of the negative mental energy. I am doing several different things for each arena of cleansing.
Physical Cleanse
I am a big fan of working out and working out hard. For the next two weeks I'm not doing that. I'm not following a program. I am spending my time walking, stretching, and fluid dancing. I'm releasing all of the negative energy that I hold in my muscles and releasing the strains. When I am feeling overwhelmed or stressed I will go for a walk. Every morning and every evening I will stretch it out. I am allowing my body to rest and en joy instead of pushing towards an intense goal.
Nutritionally I am taking the next 13 days (1 day done) to allow my body to heal. I have never done a juice fast but was interested to see how my body would react. For the next 13 days I am committed to this experiment to see how I feel. This is not the right choice for everyone so be sure to do your research before doing any kind of fast.
Emotional Cleanse
For my emotional cleanse I am journaling for 15 minutes every single day.I am allowing free thought to flow through me and onto the page. My kids are also joining me on this emotional practice. We are also starting our day with gratitude, calm music, and quiet meditation.
I have stepped away from the book of Face for the duration of my cleanse. I find that so much stress and anxiety comes from scrolling through social media. For me, Instagram does not give me the same feeling. I get inspired and motivated by Instagram where I feel dragged down by Facebook. I am limiting screen time over all to increase being present in the world around me.
Spiritual Cleanse
For our spiritual cleanse we are practicing meditation twice a day. We are embracing the natural world around us. We have each made our own sacred space where we go to and practice silence. Silence plays such a significant part in cleansing my spirit and mind.
As I continue this journey I hope to write more on this blog. I fear I have neglected it in favor of unhealthy habits.
Have you ever done a cleanse before? What was your results?
Friday, August 2, 2019
Week One of Back to Work
No matter how ready I am to go back to work. No matter how much I have prepared. No matter how many weeks before I have gone to bed early and gotten up at am. I find myself absolutely exhausted. I love going to work. I love what I do and I have the absolute best co-workers and supervisors. I am 100% focused during my work day and my days fly by. However, being focused 100% of the time after having enjoyed a nice easy going summer takes so much energy.
When I got home from work this week I was wiped out. In fact, I let myself sleep until 6 AM because I didn't make it to bed on schedule. Today still ran smoothly. I still had a great day and got LOTS done but my body and mind were fighting me 100% of the time. I have a great reminder to go to bed early this week so I can get up on time and press play.
I successfully completed all my workouts, had lunch every day, and hit my mile markers and I'm planning on preparing this weekend for next week to bring lots of success. Speaking of preparing that's what I'm heading off to do. I'm mentally too beat to keep writing right now. Only 3 more days and my blog every day for a month challenge is done!
Gratitude:
1) I am grateful for a full day of work
2) I am grateful for coffee
3) I am grateful for sleep
4) I am grateful for sleeping in
5) I am grateful for alarm clocks
6) I am grateful for my schedule
7) I am grateful to get things done
8) I am grateful for being back at work
9) I am grateful for packed lunches
10) I am grateful for lunch
Things I've accomplished
1) I made it through my first week of work
2) I woke up with plenty of time to do my make up
3) I'm keeping my eyes oipen even though I'm exhuasted
How is your energy level this week?
Thursday, August 1, 2019
No Mercy
Fair Warning guys this is going to be a short blog. I am EXHAUSTED. My body woke me up at 4:30 this morning because I thought I was going to be late for my workout. I was not, I was early. I had an awesome day but right now my pretty eyes are nearly sealing shut with eyeliner as I type this.
This blog is about someone who is very dear to my heart. The boy peeking around for the pillar above. He's just a little boy in this picture. He's now a 13 year old teenager. He's all the annoying things a teenage boy is. He's loud, obnoxious, talks mostly in memes, and he gets in trouble a bunch.
Connor has spent his entire summer grounded. My husband is a throw the book at him kind of guy. We started a system this summer where they can earn their way out of being grounded by earning a certain number of points. Connor was at 3000 points and going up. Honestly, he's a good and kind kid but he hates doing work and he hates being told what to do. My husband and Connor go head to head and he gets grounded after every interaction even more.
Connor was to the point where he felt like there was no way out. He completely quit doing anything. My entire day was spent staring at him staring back and it wasn't good for us. My husband is of the opinion Connor should stay grounded until he finally digs his way out of this debt. I want Connor to have a chance. Yesterday, I didn't erase his points but I reset them to 500 plus his weekly 600 and told him he had to earn all of his weekly points and his grounded points before he could be ungrounded. My husband was SUPER angry about it.
I'm not complaining about my husband in this post. I simply do not understand that way of thinking. I don't understand the idea that a child should never be offered mercy. However, I understand that I am particularly merciful. Mercy is one of my spiritual gifts right up there with compassion and hospitality.
These are the thoughts I ponder tonight. I pray my son grows into a strong, brave, brilliant, kind, hard working, and wonderful adult in spite of me. I pray he follows his passion and his heart. I pray he always finds laughter in every situation. I pray my son builds his empire of robots and conquers the evil in the world. He is so good... so very very good and I pray that maybe he knows just a little bit how much I believe he can do anything. I love him with every fiber of my being. Thank you for being my son Connor. You are my special boy.
Gratitude List
1) Connor
2) Connor's humor
3) Connor's stories
4) Connor's taste in music
5) Connor's' ideas
6) Connor's imagination
7) Playing games with Connor
8) Playing disc golf with Connor
9) Going swimming with Connor
10) Being Connor's Mom
Things I have accomplished
1) walking hand in hand through the woods with my kid
2) teaching Connor to walk and talk (of which he's become quite the expert)
3) being Connor's cheerleader
Does your husband and oldest child get along? How do you protect your child and respect your son? Do you think Mercy is a good thing?
Wednesday, July 31, 2019
No Fear... kind of...
I did something crazy. Something I've been wanting to do for a long time. I have put myself out there on a YouTube channel. I am making a video diary of my weight loss journey. One of my greatest fears is when people think I'm incompetent. I work really hard to give people the best impression of myself but being on YouTube is a completely different experience. I have no control over what people think of me.
I know nothing about video editing. I am using my Iphone 6s. I am editing with whatever software is on my computer. Basically my YouTube channel is everything outside of my comfort zone. Why am I doing this to myself?
I am doing it because I want to grow. I want to stretch myself. Here are my 10 life goals for the next 10 years:
1) I want to travel the world.
2) I want to write a book a year.
3) I want to be a public speaker who empowers and inspires others.
4) I want to be completely out of debt.
5) I want to be a successful beach body coach.
6) I want to be my healthiest self inside and out.
7) I want to remodel the dream home that I currently live in.
8) I want to raise good and kind adults who change the world.
9) I want to make it possible for my husband to retire early.
10) I want to save 1 million dollars.
Why am I sharing my goals with you? These are the reasons I'm putting myself out there on this blog, on YouTube, on Instagram. I want to make a difference in the world. I want to help people become the best version of themselves. I want to become a public speaker and writer professionally. I don't get to those goals by sitting comfortably at home playing video games and watching TV.
I am challenging myself one day at a time. Right now I am focused on one main goal. That main goal is to become my healthiest self inside and out. My entire focus is on making healthy choices for me inside and out and that's scary. The scary part isn't so much the workouts or the nutrition but changing and being vulnerable yet growing a thicker skin. I can't let myself care about what other people say about me. I cannot have any fear.
Healthier choices mean I wake up super early, I workout on program, I pack my lunches, and I live on a schedule. Healthier choices mean I do not let people take advantage of my kindness. They mean I leave situations that are bad for me mentally and drag me down. Healthy choices mean I choose my friends more wisely. Healthier choices mean I stick up for myself and I say no to what I don't want to do. Healthier choices mean I get to choose how I spent my time.
Healthier choices mean I share my story with the world because maybe just maybe I can help one person out there. It means I don't sit and dwell on a difficult past but push towards a brighter future. It means I fall in love with my husband more and more every single day.
Healthier choices are sometimes uncomfortably choices but that's okay. My choices are stretching me and helping me grow into the healthiest version of myself inside and out.
Gratitude List:
1) I am grateful that my 30 days of blogging are almost up. (Only 5 more days)
2) I am grateful for a school that sponsors free events for my kids to get to go to.
3) I am grateful that my children like to be outside.
4) I am grateful that I push myself.
5) I am grateful for to do lists.
6) I am grateful when I finish a good book
7) I am grateful for water bottles
8) I am grateful for time to pack my lunch
9) I am grateful for a lunch pail
10) I am grateful for a working lunch.
Things I have accomplished
1) I have survived summer break.
2) I have prepared my budget spreadsheet for one of my three departments at work for the year.
3) I have organized my work desk.
Question:
What are you afraid of?
Tuesday, July 30, 2019
Living Life in Balance
How have I learned to keep my work and life balanced? Well to be honest it is a work in progress but here are 4 tips for keeping work and life in check.
Does your schedule change when you are working vs when you are staying home? Do you think it is easier to stick with your goals while working or while at home? What suggestions do you have for maintaining a work life balance?